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Ask Saab 51

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January 29, 2017 3 Comments

Question: Will you ever consider petting a cat? Hahaha
A: You mean touching a cat in a loving way? Hehe. Yeah of course, I’ve done that plenty of times. If you mean having a cat as a pet, I’ve considered it. But I think taking care of Joey is enough for me at the moment. :)

Q: Do you have any advice for someone who wants to be good at blogging too like you? And do you always read?
A: Yes, I like to read a lot! My advice is to write every day. I should follow my own advice, too. Hehe.

Q: Hi Saab! I really like your new blog lay out :) Can you blog about your fitness routine and oh, updated make up routine. Thanks! – Jo
A: Thank you so much :) Noted!!

Q: What are your favorite sneakers to travel with? :)
A: My Adidas NMDs are super duper comfy.

Q: Hi Saab! I would like to know where do you always buy your jackets and parkas? Thank you!
A: I like Topshop and Zara :)

Q: Hello Saab!! Kailan tutugtog Cheats sa Cup Fiction? Hehe. Excited na ako sa 2nd album! 💖- Jecca
A: Hi Jecca! We’re planning something for Cup Fiction!:) Stay tuned, I post upcoming gig schedules on the homepage of my blog. Excited for our 2nd album as well!

Q: Hi! Been a fan for years and I asked you here before but I literally forgot what was the question (what?!). This gonna be long, hope you’ll try to finish this and answer this one day. I have a boyfriend for 3 yrs now. LDR. We always make sure na we could spend time together every other month even just for a day. Just to make it short, we cope up with our situation. Though it is financially and physically exhausting cos travelling for almost 10 hrs is not easy. He is the one who always visits me. fast forward to my greatest concern, when we’re about 2 yrs in our relationship i found out na he tried and been using substance (barkada influence). I was devastated, i felt betrayed and got crazy about it. But I convinced myself not to give up on him. He needs me the most since his family is now falling apart. He’s broken and I couldn’t let him go. We talked about it. We choose Jesus to be the center of our relationship. Good thing that he is from a religious family (he is a sakristan before).Now, its been a year since the last time he used it (accdg.to him). My problem is, the fact, we are still miles apart and I can’t fully trust him na. I mean we are okay, really, we’re both in love with each other yet if we fight I can’t help myself not to mention those things again. How can I trust him again? How? And how can I make sure na he is not into that bullshit? 😢-1820
A: Hello! Wow, that’s a heavy situation you’re in. I wish I could tell you what to do but since I only have limited knowledge on what’s going on, I can only try and help you make a decision. I really would not recommend carrying the burden of being the only one he can turn to because his family is falling apart. Sure, be his friend and listen to him if he needs somebody to talk to.

But with his drug use, I don’t think this guy is in the right place to be in a relationship. You can blame it on his barkada and his family problems all you want but ultimately it is he who makes the choices in his life. He betrayed your trust while you’re miles away and it’s totally understandable for you to be doubtful. If you ask me what I would do, I would just leave the relationship and start fresh. Focus on your life abroad (I assume you are the one who’s abroad?) and have fun!! Why should you let him drag you down?

If you’re thinking “eh he’s changed naman na!” then there you go. Be in a committed, loving, trusting relationship and never bring up his past issues. It’s unfair to both of you to hold it against him for the rest of your lives. But if you are questioning these things up to now and asking me how you can ever trust him again, then I should ask: should you even bother? Good luck and I hope I helped!

♥,
Saab

January 28, 2017

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3 Comments

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    Gigi

    January 29, 2017

    Yay! New lay out;-)

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    Tanya

    January 30, 2017

    Love the new lay out! <3

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    Pots

    January 31, 2017

    Ang hirap nung last question parang pang Miss U. Hehe love the new layout Saab!! <3

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