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Q: Naniniwala ka ba sa cool off? Para kasing nagiging routinary na lang yung relationship namin ng boyfriend ko ngayon. :( nabobore na ako. :( don’t know what to do! :(

Ross & Rachel talking about taking a break

Ross & Rachel talking about taking a break

A: Awww… Personally I don’t believe in “cooling off” — I think the better thing to do is talk about it and be honest. Tell him you want to do new things together and if he’s not willing to try at all, then maybe you should think twice about your relationship.

Of course if he’s very busy with work you’ll have to be more understanding rin. He’s not the only one who should be making an effort.

Jim and I have talked about alternating each week about who will come up with an idea for our weekly dates!:) If he’s really really really busy and there’s absolutely no way he can do fun stuff with you (and I hope it’s just temporary), that’s no reason to stop you from going to an art fair or a gig with your friends (preferably friends of the same gender just so your boyfriend doesn’t get threatened). Then you can tell him all about your adventures and how you can’t wait to do these things with him too.

I asked what my Twitter followers have to say about this topic just so you can read what others have to say about it, too!

I hope this helps you figure out what you need to do!:)

♥,
Saab

March 14, 2016
March 16, 2016

Saab

5 Comments

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    Llana

    March 15, 2016

    I’M SUPER HAPPY RIGHT NOW BECAUSE YOU BLOGGED ABOUT MY QUESTION!!!!! :) <3

    Just to give you an update: Me and my boyfriend are doing very well right now. We worked things out. We talked about it and I opened up to him all my issues in our relationship. And I must say my boyfriend didn't give up on me during those times I am so close to giving up on us. He will start joining me in my fun runs soon! :)

    thank you so much, Saab! Love you! More power!!! :)

    • Reply

      Saab

      March 16, 2016

      So happy to hear that!!! Good luck and have a blast on your fun runs!!:)

  2. Reply

    Tsikiboom

    March 15, 2016

    Can I just say..?

    Ross ❤️ Rachel

    • Reply

      Saab

      March 16, 2016

      Right?????

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